By Serron Ngoshi
THE following is true, we are all human, we make mistakes, no one is perfect, but my personal opinion is the fact that we are all human. Being human means we share the same problems, and we make common mistakes. Honestly no matter how much on track you think you are somewhere somehow you will go wrong.
Situations of life, somehow gets us in a corner or is opening doors for defaulting and going back one step. Yes we are all human, and there will always be the day you feel misunderstood, not heard, or you simply feel like you are not making enough impact, but what do you do at times like that? Do you allow it to get the best out of you? Do you keep your head up? As much as you are drained by situation and yes, it is normal to be faced with situations, problems will always be there “it’s either you are in one, you just got out of one or you are heading into one” you cannot have a life without any problems, as much as we desire to, as an author of this article I’m not sharing things. I read about it. Nevertheless, this is what I have been exposed to in my seasons of growing just like you I get faced by life’s challenges and trust me I’m not saying it is easy managing them.
What I want to express is that, I feel you, hear you, and I understand you. No matter if you are a student, an employer, an employee, or unemployed while you are reading this article. Trust me I understand, we are all in a cycle of becoming. Indeed becoming that person of influence, that person of change. So ask yourself these questions do you allow the status quo to get the best of you, allowing you to continue going a step behind, or do you tie your shoes tighter? Dust yourself and continue moving, looking forward to the next day? Look at this if you are in a difficult moment in your life and if you have to cry, cry! If you have to scream, scream! If you have to take a few shots do that! Even if you have to get away from people for a while do that! Whatever works for you I’m not necessarily condoning the fact that you base your decisions on feelings, do that only if it will really work and reenergize your character.
Make it a habit to motivate yourself. It is your responsibility to do that, because as much as you look for someone to share your problems with, it might ease the chest, ease your conscious, and by the end of the day you might not reach out to the right person. It is like in the old quote “not everyone is ready to take on your problems as they face their own.”
Just do yourself a favor and keep a strong character; finally I want you to see yourself as a seed see your destiny as compressed in this seed, for you to become you need to be in fertile soil I want you to identify in what soil you are as a seed and by that I mean the environment you are in if you are in an unfertile soil as a seed with potential to grow, no matter the sunlight or the amount of water you get you will never grow.
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